Life is all about the choices that we make..and yet, far too much of our life is spent regretting those choices. We cannot go back in time and change the past but we can acknowledge and accept it. Being in denial never helps. The past is over and done with. Embrace the memories that you cherish, let go of the ones that disturb you. The future is not yet here..don't spend days, weeks and months planning for it. Enjoy the here and now.